On the night of 11/27/2024, Coley was struggling.  My husband and I went to his apartment, calmed him down, and made sure he had food and drinks.  I texted him the next day (Thanksgiving) and he said he was good.  After that, he stopped responding to texts and calls.  He would do this sometimes - "ghost" us so  I didn't become too concerned at first.  I finally talked to his roommate, who said he had not seen or heard from Coley, and his car was also gone.